Thanksgiving & Vince

I stayed at Vince’s for a few hours for Thanksgiving before I headed home. It was a little awkward between us but we managed to make it nice for his nieces and nephews. I was offered a glass of wine but declined since I was only there for 2 hours - Vince lives like 10 minutes away from me but I still didn’t want to risk it because I pass one of the many state police barracks in my state to get home AND it was also a holiday weekend. 

He does want to meet up sometime “soon” to have lunch and discuss if we can get back together. I laughed out loud and told him that we’re NOT going to get back together because I will 100% question everything he says and does. He then asked if we could still do lunch - I said that would be impossible in the foreseeable future because he needs to sit down and seriously think about what went wrong in our relationship with his words and his actions and until he puts on his big boy undies, admits that he fucked up with TWO women - claiming that he loved us both - and apologizes to me, I’ve really got nothing to say to him. 

He was visibly upset with me holding him accountable for his actions/behavior and upset with me for keeping my boundaries. Let him be upset with me for making sure that he acts like an adult when dealing with me