Communication is a good thing

V and I have been doing better with communication outside of sex - journaling has helped me and therapy has helped him. It's still hard to talk about the miscarriage and also for us to talk but the conversations are getting better. We've been working on our communication more and having sex less (the sex is still great and mind blowing). We figured that talking would help us figure out what we want to do - whether it's continue with the relationship, try to get pregnant again, walk away from each other, etc.  Some of the conversations aren't easy at all but it's helping us figure out what to do.