Thursday, October 2, 2025

Friday: Owner's backing, surf showdown, and a surprise Papi

The week commenced under a shroud of palpable hostility. My interactions with Scott were strictly minimal inside his house, creating a suffocating atmosphere. Keys in hand one morning, he snapped, “I don't need a babysitter.”

“Yes, you do. Your continued actions prove that necessity,” I retorted. That friction made navigating the subsequent days of practices at the arena increasingly challenging.

The morning sessions—which included scrimmages, drills, and the players teaching me rugby—were all fundamentally modified to accommodate my healing nose and fading black eyes. Ironically, the integration of the mental health team—a major, and very expensive, organizational investment—coincided with an immediate dip in performance; the players seemed to be making more unforced errors and acting out under the added scrutiny. I made the executive decision to end the turf practices early, granting the players two and a half hours to shower, change, and have lunch.

The afternoons were then dedicated to mandatory, small-group sessions. Players were organized in groups of two to three to meet with a team of mental health providers, specifically including a psychiatrist, a therapist, and a psychologist.

"I need to know exactly how the team is managing this new tension," I stated out loud in the coaches’ office to no one in particular as I reviewed the constantly changing schedule. The core mandate of these afternoon sessions was to ensure the team learned their triggers and understood how to apply professional communication in their words and actions. While the players and coaches met with the specialists I had retained, I also scheduled sessions with my own therapist. Everyone was utilizing the new team structure. "Please feel free to share your notes with the main owners of the All Blacks," I instructed my therapist, and he immediately complied.

On Friday morning, en route to the turf, the owners called me to the clubhouse over the announcement system. "I'm going up to the clubhouse for a meeting with the owners," I informed the Jasons. They exchanged a grim look and simply nodded. I took the elevator.

When I walked in, the owners greeted me with professional warmth. Charlie, the main owner, initiated the conversation.

"We were happy to see that you gave your therapist permission to share his notes from the last few visits, though your authorization was technically unnecessary as we have complete confidence in you," Charlie stated. "We remain fully aware of your history with ADHD, anxiety, depression, and sleep issues from when you first worked with us. We not only accept this but understand it completely, as many of us are neurodivergent ourselves. We know and appreciate your ability to remain calm in all situations. We’ve seen you manage some of the toughest—and strangest—scenarios. We all genuinely appreciate your transparency and willingness to be open with us."

“I appreciate that understanding, Charlie,” I replied. “To be honest, I was rather nervous coming up here for this unofficial official meeting. However, I am a firm believer in open and honest communication. The exact purpose of assembling this amazing team of mental health professionals is to assess each player's capacity to redirect their reactions toward a more positive and healthier mindset. Fans, sportscasters, and paparazzi won’t tolerate poor sportsmanship or a well-known sports team retaining players who chronically lack composure. I am hoping this process helps them, and helps you, identify those who can effectively take correction and serve as reliable public role models.”

“We understand,” Barb said. “This gives us clear new rules and guidelines the players will need to follow moving forward. And yes, we agree that the occasional joint or drink is acceptable, but excessive use of either—in public or private—will definitely affect their performance in practice and in matches.”

I nodded in agreement. Barb, Charlie, the other owners, and I continued our discussion until we realized I had missed a substantial portion of the morning practice.

“Sorry, guys,” I said, gathering my belongings. “We got completely caught up, and I lost track of time. I better get down to the turf!”

I joined the players and coaches on the turf for the final 45 minutes of the morning session, choosing to observe their interactions closely. I was anticipating the final, confidential reports from the mental health team, which I intended to review privately in a hotel over the weekend to ensure Scott couldn't see the sensitive findings concerning him and the team.

As I leaned down to tie my shoe, the players stopped mid-drill, the ball dropped, and every eye snapped toward the tunnel entrance. Before I could even turn, a few chimed in, saying: “Oooooooh, Deppgrl!! Someone has a secret admirer!”

I immediately turned to see Vic walking toward me, his arms overflowing with well over three dozen flowers. I was so startled I dropped my chapstick. The moment he located me, our eyes met, and we both broke into wide smiles.

I ran toward him. As we embraced, he leaned in to kiss me, and I kissed him back, momentarily forgetting my professional location and Scott's immediate presence. When we finally pulled apart, I leaned against his chest, wrapped tightly in his strong arms. His familiar, compelling scent—a mix of clean soap, deep sandalwood, musk, and a trace of bonfire—enveloped me. His kiss carried the warm, complex flavor of coffee layered with whiskey.

“Hola, mi amore,” he murmured in his sexy Spanish accent. “I heard from Kay that you’ve run into a few hiccups already. I needed to ensure that you’re truly okay.”

“Hey, Papi,” I replied softly. “Yeah, a few. Nothing I can’t handle.”

“Can you spend the weekend with me?” he asked hopefully.

“Most of it,” I said honestly. “I have some comprehensive mental evaluations on the coaches and players that I need to read and integrate into their official files.”

“Sounds incredibly boring,” he said, flashing that sexy smirk I loved so much.

“How did your boss and your wife react to this sudden visit?” I asked, testing the waters.

“The boss is fine; he knows I’ll be back and will pay me even though I am not physically there,” he said. “The wife? She knows exactly where I am and hates that I’d rather spend time with you. How does your current boyfriend feel about my arrival?”

“He doesn’t know anything about our history, Papa,” I said. “Would you like to meet everyone?”

“If that includes him, then yes, I do, amore,” he said before kissing me again. “These are for you.”

“Thank you, Papa,” I said. “They truly are beautiful!”

“They’ve got nothing on you, amore,” he whispered. “I’d love to meet the guys you supposedly ditched me for.”

“Let’s head on over,” I said, taking his hand in mine. “The scowling blond over there is Scott. He’s the head coach and my designated ‘boyfriend’ while I’m here. The two laughing hysterically are Jason Ryan and Jason Holland—I call them the Jasons.”

As we walked over, I quickly identified the remaining coaches and introduced them all. We then approached the players, who immediately started clamoring over each other to meet Vic. The situation became loud and disorderly very quickly. I blew the high-pitched whistle hanging from my ID lanyard, and the players instantly stopped and covered their ears. They knew that signal meant business.

“All of you are disappointing and embarrassing me right now,” I stated. “Did you learn absolutely nothing from the professionals I brought in to help you?”

The players began to talk over each other until they saw me lift the whistle toward my lips again. Vic muttered, just loud enough for me to hear, that there was something else he’d like to put to my lips. I shot him a severe glance, and he responded with his stunning, unapologetic smile.

“I’ve been here a week, and I still don’t remember all your names. What we’re going to do is have you guys line up in descending order from practice jersey number… that means highest to lowest number,” I commanded. “I know we’ve all had a few hits to the head this week—in my case, directly to the nose. We’re going to demonstrate manners, shake hands, and make eye contact!”

I drew a few relieved chuckles.

“What kind of handshakes are we going to have?” I asked.

“Firm!” was the unanimous, shouted answer. “You hate dead fish and limp handshakes. Limp handshakes from a man shows exactly how he is in bed!”

“Exactly!” I grinned.

Vic looked at me, thoroughly amused, and I told him I would explain the rule later. The players lined up and behaved themselves impeccably while introducing themselves. Just as the last player finished, Charlie, the main owner, walked down holding a massive folder—the confidential reports from the mental health team. I knew a challenging weekend was ahead. Charlie and Vic shook hands, then stepped aside after Charlie handed me the folder.

I used a call-and-response clap to regain attention and informed the players that Chinese food was available up in the clubhouse, provided they showered and changed first. As they started moving, I told them they were welcome to head home for the weekend after lunch. They looked genuinely surprised, as coaches typically handle dismissal. I reminded them, "While I’m here, I outrank the coaches by a small margin, and if the coaches have an issue with it, they can suck it."

A few minutes later, Charlie and Vic returned.

“Hey, Charlie,” I said. “Thanks for bringing this information down; you didn’t have to. I appreciate the delivery.”

“Not a problem at all,” he said. “It was nice of you to order them food and release them early for the weekend.”

“I hope you don’t mind that I used the company credit card,” I said.

“How did you use it? It’s locked in the office,” he countered.

“I memorized the information,” I said simply. “Also, I am still included in the bank account access after all these years.”

“Oh, that’s right,” he remembered. "Look, I helped Vic secure an upgraded room for you. I have someone there now installing a lock box to securely store the information I just gave you. Barb also grabbed some of your personal belongings from Scott’s place, so you won’t need to go back there. Food, drinks, and everything else is already taken care of.”

“Thanks, Charlie,” I said, glancing toward Scott. “How’s he taking this surprise visit?”

“Not well, but I explicitly told him to tone his anger down as he’s still married, and if he fails to, you have the full authorization to suspend him for as long as you choose… without pay,” he confirmed.

“Thanks, boss man. I genuinely appreciate that backing,” I said.

Charlie smiled and left. I grabbed my belongings and led Vic up to the clubhouse for lunch. The players and coaches were already calling Vic “Uncle Vic,” recalling that I had previously told them to consider me their aunt.

“¡Besame el culo gordo, pendejo!” I called out to them in response, a big smile plastered on my face.

A few players responded with: “Si, Jefa (yes, boss)!” while most of the team responded with: “Si, Ama (yes, mistress)!” Loud laughter erupted afterward. I loved how something so simple—yet technically an insult, though meant as a humorous truth—elicited such a lighthearted response.

We grabbed some food and ate with the players for a bit before we headed to the hotel that Vic booked. When we arrived at the hotel, it was far fancier than I expected. I knew that he wasn’t made of money and the original room he booked would cost more for two nights than what he earned in a month and a half – and he’s well paid. I don’t want to know how much it cost Charlie and the rest of the owners to upgrade the room but I was thankful that they stepped in. I unloaded my heavy bag, set up both of my phones to charge and secured the folder that Charlie handed me inside of the lock box. The instructions were easy to set up; it was a fingerprint and a key….the box wouldn’t open without both but I added a six digit code as added security. I knew he wouldn’t open the lock box but I wanted to stay  onboard with the All Blacks for as long as they needed me. As I turned around, Vic was putting the flowers he bought me into the different vases and spread the vases around the room. When he was done, he asked me what I wanted.

“You, sleep, food, shower, a nap, you, some peace and quiet from the team and more food,” I said. “Not necessarily in that order.”

“How about we both take a shower and then nap,” he whispered in that sexy Spanish accent. “When we wake up from our nap, we can decide what to do afterwards.”

“What if I want to ride you, Papa?” I asked with a sly hint of trouble in my blue green eyes.

He smiled that stunning smile that made me fall in love with him eleven long years ago.