I shared with someone the other day about my cheating ex bf (and how I accidentally got pregnant, found out he cheated on me and so I made the decision to have an abortion). This person knew about the cheating ex but didn’t know about the pregnancy nor about the abortion; they apologized that I had gone through that (cheating ex, knowing that the ex wouldn’t stick around and the decision for the abortion) and commented that I would’ve been a good mom.
We continued the conversation and they said that they wanted to be a parent; I gave my support of them being a good parent, that they’d be a perfect mix between parent and friend, etc. As we talked, I shared that I don’t want kids nor do I desire kids…..just want a good man that has a good penis and we have good sex; that I’m happy being that tipsy aunt that brings nothing but alcohol to family gatherings. This person said that I’m good with my part time kids - my siblings’ kids and my friends' kids- and reiterated that I’d be a good mom.
As the conversation ended for the day, I started to do some thinking. Since I was younger, I did want multiple kids (like 3 or 4) but between the ex, not having a big dating pool near me, picky about the men (and women) that I date, etc. I’d need to make sure that I’d find the right guy to have a kid with. I’m not going to have a kid with just any guy I’m dating; this guy has to be AMAZING.
Anyways. I was talking to this person today and I shared what I was thinking about and he said that I should seriously consider having at least 2 to 3 kids but 2 would be a perfect number.
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